Sunday, August 12, 2012

Drape the Rape

"By not coming forward (about rape), you make yourself a victim forever"

In India, Rapes are increasing day by day. Everyday there is a story about another girl abduction but why is it increasing so much? Why Girls are not safe on roads or should i mention not even at home? WHY?Everyone says "Rape is caused by lust or uncontrollable sexual urges and the need for sexual gratification." We'll they are hiding their asses behind this Myth. But actually the reality is "Rape is an act of physical violence and domination that is not motivated by sexual gratification." There are so many Brothel in our country then why so many rapes? So, there is no such sexual urge because Men do not physically need to have sex after becoming sexually excited. Moreover, they are still able to control themselves after becoming aroused. then what is the reason behind this issue?

In our country its very easy to blame women because the day a girl born, everyone in her family will teach her how to walk, how to talk, how to dress, how to work, how to understand, how to respect, how to cook and after so many "how to" the reason for rape is Girls Provocative Clothes. Dont you think if you teach one girl so many "how to" then atleast one for the "Laadla" of your family.

"Well, Dont teach a girl how to wear clothes or what to wear, teach your son to respect a women. " But what if one women is not giving respect to another women? We have so many examples of this, Like "Saas Bahu ka Jhagda", "Pati patni and wo" and maximum number of time i noticed in Pati Patni and Wo, Wo is played by another women. And in this case there are two views; Firstly, Wo is wrong and Secondly, men are Pigs because they cannot clean their own house but they want to jump in another pithole. This is another main issue, i'll write about this very soon but back to the point A women is the biggest enemy of another women.

Effects and aftermath of rape: 

1.Vaginal or anal bleeding or infection
3.Sexually transmitted diseases

Psychological response to rape

1.Self Blame
So, Rape is not just about harming women physically but also mentally. They blame herself because of no support from family and most of the times they commit suicide. so next time when you think of harming a woman think about when someone is harming your own mother or sister. I know its funny when a girl say " Ghar me maa behen nahi hai", but seriously guys its very painful and a shame. If you cannot control your emotions go and have some paid sex or may be buy some toys but don't consider girls as a toy. 
Facts About Sexual Assault -
  • 84 percent of the women who are raped knew their assailants. 
  • Women, ages 16-24, have four times higher risk of being raped than any other population group. 
  • 75 percent of male students and 55 percent of female students involved in date rape had been drunk or using drugs. 
  • One out of four women is sexually assaulted at some point in her life. 
  • 95 percent of these rape victims did not report the rape to officials. 

This is 2012, when we have technology for everything. Its so easy to wash clothes, utensils; even so many missiles have been invented to fight with other countries but there is no missile or no technology and its very shameful to say that no such rules and regulations indian government can provide for indian women. Once i was thinking about this and my wild thinking invented a gadget i.e what if every women wears something with their clothes that if they found someone who is attacking her gets electrocuted. 
So, if you have some idea for any device share it with me, its a good time for some new invention. So bring it on and think wild. :)

And this is for all guys, 



  1. Hey Shivani,

    Surely a bold topic to write on. Your agitation is clearly visable,but I think you still have scope to write more about same topic. No question that our women does not deserved to be raped and men in our society needs to understand this.

    I also think that the view is one-sided. You should also write about women who tend to blame men under false rape charges.

  2. well said shivani, but you forgot one point that those who commited this horrendous and unnatural crime should be severely punished and justice be made through fast track courts. The punishment and fast judgement will create an example and the women can be saved from this unnatural act of some monsters.Shivani, men are not pigs, those people whom you referred are called not even qualified to be called as animals, they are mosnters of societies and monsters must pe put down with an extreme punishment.

  3. I m with u Shivani. Liked the way u expressed ur views.